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sleep is a narcotic that is exceptional
my heart is dissolves in the silence
flying up, my love is made to dance
my body trembling at the memory of the touch of a rose
i keep my love for you to myself

endless rain fall on my heart
in the wounds of this heart
let me forget
all of the hate
all of the sadness

it’s a dream, i m in love with you
let me sleep in your embrace

i awake from my dream
i cant find my way without you

the dream is over
your voice imitates the words again
floating lost along the ash-colored walls
i remember the dream in a reflection
until i can forget your love

all my love seems to flow from my body like a heart felt memory

days of joy, day of sadness slowly pass me by
as i try to hold you, you re vanishing before me
you re just an illusion
when i m awake, my tears have dried in the sands of sleep
i m a rose blooming in the desert

Falling in love is like springtime, we feel as though we will be happy forever, we cannot imagine not loving our partner, love seems eternal, it is a magical time when everything seems perfect and works effortlessly, our partner seems to be the perfect fit, we dance together in harmony and rejoice in our good fortune

Throughout the summer of our love we realize our partner is not as perfect as we thought, and we have to work on our relationship, human always makes mistakes and is flawed in certain ways, frustration and disappointment arise, weeds need to be uprooted and plants need extra watering under the hot sun, it is no longer easy to give love and get the love we need, we discover that we are not always happy, and we do not always feel loving, it is not our picture of love, many couples at this point become disillusioned, they unrealistically expect it to be spring all the time, they blame their partners and give up, they do not realize that love is not always easy, sometimes it requires hard work under a hot sun, we need to nurture our partner’s needs as well as ask for and get the love we need it doesn’t happen automatically

The autumn of love, we get to harvest the results of our hard work, fall has come, it is a golden time-rich and fulfilling, we experience a more mature love that accepts and understands our partner’s imperfections as well as our own, it is a time of thanksgiving and sharing, having worked hard during summer we can relax and enjoy the love we have created

Then the weather changes again, and winter comes, during the cold, barren months of winter, all of nature pulls back within itself, it is a time of rest, reflection, and renewal, this is a time in relationship when we experience our own unresolved pain or our shadow self, it is when our lid comes off and our painful feelings emerge, it is a time of solitary growth when we need to look more to ourselves than to our partners for love and fulfillment, it is a time of healing, this is the time when men hibernate in their caves and women sink to the bottom of their wells

After loving and healing ourselves through the dark winter of love, then spring inevitably returns, once again we are blessed with the feelings of hope, love and an abundance of possibilities, based on the inner healing and soul searching of our wintery journey, we are then able to open our hearts and feel the springtime of love

*二十五岁之前 请记得 爱情通常是假的 或者不是你所想像的那样纯洁和永远 如果你過了二十五岁 那麼你应该懂得这个道理

*吃饭七成饱最舒服 对待女友最多也请你保持在七成

*三十岁之前请爱惜自己的身体 前三十年你找病 后三十年病找你 如果你過了三十岁 你自然也会懂得这个道理

*事业远比爱情重要 如果说事业都不能永恒 那麼爱情只能算是曇花一現

*不要轻易接受追求你的女孩 女追男隔层纱 如果你很容易就陷进去 你会发现你会错过很多东西 失去很多东西

*请你相信 能用钱解决的问题 都不是問題 如果你认为钱索王道 有钱有女人 沒钱沒女人 那麼 女人不是問題

*请永远积极向上 每个男人都有他可爱的地方 但是不可爱的地方只有不积极面对生活

*好馬不吃回头草 是有他道理的 如果认真考虑过该分手 那麼请不要做任何捨不得的行动

*如果你和你前女友能做朋友 那麼你要问自己 為什麼 如果分手后还是朋友 那麼只有二个可能 你们当初都只是玩玩而已 沒付出彼此最真的感情 或者必定有个人是在默默地付出无怨无悔

*永远不要太相信女人在恋爱時的甜言蜜语 都說女人爱听甜言蜜语 其实 男人更喜欢

*请不要为自己的相貌或者身高过分担心和自卑 人是动物 但是区别于动物 先天条件并不是阻挡你好好生活的藉口 人的心灵远胜于相貌 请相信这点 如果有人以相貌取人 那麼你也沒必要太在意 因为他从某种意义来讲 只是只动物 你会跟动物怄气吗

*失恋時 只有二种可能 要麼你爱她她不爱你 或者相反 那麼 当你爱的人不再爱你 或者从来沒爱过你时 你沒有遗憾 因为你失去的只是一个不爱你的人

*不能偏激地认为金钱万能 至少金钱治不好艾滋病

*请一定要有自信 你就是一道风景 沒必要在別人风景里面仰视

*受到再大的打击 只要生命还在 请相信每天的太阳都是新的

*爱情永遠不可能是天秤 你想要在爱情里得到幸福那就要先舍得伤心

*男人请要学会品味寂寞 请记住 即使寂寞 远方黑暗的夜空下 一定有人和你一样 寂寞的人不同 仰望的星空却是唯一

*任何事沒有永远 也別问怎样才能永远 生活有很多无奈 请尽量充实自己 充实生活 请善待生活